When offering readings I find many people hold onto guilt. Some have cheated on their partner, lied, deceived, controlled, etc. Guilt states a person is feeling unworthy, bad, self blaming, etc. When I ask what is positive about holding onto guilt most say they do not know. I tell my clients ” holding onto guilt keeps you safe because it is familiar.” However the energy of not being worthy of goodness or love will keep that individual stuck from uncovering their heart.
If they let go of guilt (forgive themselves) then their whole dynamic would begin to change. Whatever form of guilt one has done with another, the other person also set up the scenario consciously or unconsciously. One
It truly takes courage to forgive oneself.