When offering readings I find many people hold onto guilt. Some have been judgmental, untruthful, selfish, etc. Guilt states a person is feeling unworthy, bad, self blaming, etc. When I ask what is positive about holding onto guilt most say they do not know. I tell my clients ” holding onto guilt keeps you safe because it is familiar.” However the energy of not being worthy of goodness or love will keep the individual stuck from uncovering their heart.
If one lets go of guilt (forgive themselves) then their self-perception will begin to change. Whatever form of guilt one has done with another, the other person also set up the scenario consciously or unconsciously. One
person told me, “I hold onto guilt so I won’t do it again.” However, the energy of guilt indicates that person is not worthy of love.
It truly takes courage to forgive oneself.